Thought Catalog


Finafollow ko sa instagram yung @thoughtcatalog, ang gaganda kasi ng messages about relationships. Heto yung mga example:

You deserve a person who loves you. A person who sees your value. A person who knows your worth and effortlessly reaches your standards.

You deserve a person who cares about what you have to say. A person who respects your opinions. A person who remembers the little things you mention in conversation. A person who actually listens when you speak.
You deserve a person who shows up when it matters the most. A person who you can call in the middle of the night without feeling weird. A person who texts you back within a reasonable amount of time. A person who will go out of their way to pick you up or drive you home.
You deserve a person who compromises with you whenever you disagree. A person who is mature enough to meet you halfway instead of forcing you to go along with their idea. A person who cares more about the strength of your relationship than about being right.
You deserve a person who treats you with respect, even during your most intense fights. A person who would never curse at you or call you names. A person who would never make you feel bad about who you are.
You deserve a person who gives you the affection you crave. A person who holds you close at night. A person who kisses your cheek in public. A person who holds your hand on the couch. A person who wants you around all the time.
You deserve a person who you can trust. A person who calls when they are going to be late. A person who admits how they are feeling without sending mixed signals. A person who is serious about staying loyal.
You deserve a person who thinks highly of you. A person who thinks you are intelligent and interesting. A person who thinks you are the most beautiful one in any room. A person who thinks they are fortunate to have met you.
You deserve a person who cares. A person who puts in effort. A person who is not going anywhere because they are your forever.

A soulmate isn’t someone who completes you. No, a soulmate is someone who inspires you to complete yourself.

A soulmate is someone who does not judge you for your flaws. A soulmate is someone who sees your jagged edges, who sees the parts of you that have been weathered by love and by life, who sees the wars that you fight, and who chooses to stand beside you. A soulmate is someone who watches as you confront your scars from the inside; always encouraging you to heal on your own time, in your own way; always encouraging you to keep going.

A soulmate is someone who challenges you to challenge yourself. Someone who sees the potential that courses through your bones, and who lets you know exactly what you are capable of. They help you to open your eyes, to come to terms with the fact that you are powerful beyond measure. They see you in ways that you have never been able to see yourself, and they are not afraid to inspire you until you finally see it too.

See, a soulmate is someone who is not afraid of your growth. They do not feel the need to close you off, to protect you from becoming as big as you were always meant to be. They do not feel inadequate when they see you soar, when they see something new within you spark. A soulmate is someone who will never vilify you for changing, for doing the things you have always held yourself back from doing, because a soulmate knows that you are building yourself into someone you are proud of, and that is so beautiful to them β€” that is what they have always hoped for you.

So no, a soulmate does not complete you β€” they inspire you to complete yourself. A soulmate is the person who supports your direction, who motivates and encourages you to stretch, to change, to reinvent yourself until you are happy. A soulmate is someone who loves you with so much conviction, and so much heart, that it is nearly impossible to doubt just how capable you are of becoming exactly who you have always wanted to be.

You deserve someone who will look at you and know that you are good enough.

Someone who will not let you struggle on whether or not you’re worth it, because you are.
You deserve someone whom you don’t have to explain yourself to. Someone who will never see you as too much of this, too much of that, someone who will embrace all your edges and know that if it wasn’t for them, you wouldn’t be as strong, as incredible.
You deserve someone who will never make you feel like you have to be their monumental idea of who you should be. Someone who will understand that the way you talk, the way you dress, the way you carry yourself is what makes you unique, and unique is beautiful. Someone who will look at you love your bad parts as much as they love your good parts.
You deserve someone who will stays with you during the stormy days and assures you that things will get better. Someone who will inspire you, encourage you, push you beyond your own limits. Someone who will trust your talents and abilities even when you can’t trust your own. Someone who will love you at your most critical moments, even the moments when you can’t love yourself.
You deserve someone who will see beyond the outer, who will see a smart, beautiful person who fiercely fights to survive life. Someone who will regard the intensity of bravery you have amounted to. Someone who will recognize your strength.
You deserve someone who will see you and know that you are worth so much more than meets the eye.
You deserve someone who will love you in your entirety.

 

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